Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Troubled If any females that would be able to shed some advice would be fantastic and tips from men would be?

Great to. I have been dating my wonderful G/F for 8 months now and everything was great, but within the first 3 months she had a serious sexual conversation with a guy she barely knows. I obviously found out and after reading what was contained in there was things like what she would do to him etc etc and saying he was such a lovely guy. I was absolutely sick to my stomach very hurt and extremely angry. When i approached her with this she got extremely upset and apologized over and over again and i did forgive her but told her that it extremely hurt me. Long story short she said she will never do those things again but im very unsure i know she will never physically cheat on me but mentally for me is just as bad. She left facebook up on the pc without logging out and sure enough there was a conversation with another fellow not as sexual but still have enough that i feel bad and upset. She is my first longtime/serious girlfriend is this behavior normal in women i would never dream of acting like this as it is just unthinkable to have these conversations with anyone as im in a relationship. Am i being to sensitive is there a way to approach the situation I'm 24 she is 21Troubled If any females that would be able to shed some advice would be fantastic and tips from men would be?
No, this is not normal behaviour for men or women that are in a relationship...she obviously either has a serious mental issue, or she doesn't feel the same way about you as you do her.





8 months is not a long time, lol, maybe at your age but it's not really. If she's done this twice to you in that length of time, she isn't going to stop. If she's cheating on you mentally don't kid yourself, it will turn into physically when she meets the right one.





Don't let her continue to hurt you. You don't sound like the sharing type, so dump her and find someone who wants to be with you, and only you. You're young, and it's not fair to you to waste your time on someone like her.Troubled If any females that would be able to shed some advice would be fantastic and tips from men would be?
Dump her. She's probably been doing it the whole time and isn't going to stop..Sorry but you deserve better.
Wow, yeah that's pretty messed up, but it does happen. I never do that kind of thing but I found out that my ex husband was doing the same thing with a girl on myspace while we were married??? I think it is absolutely ridiculous, it makes him look stupid. Anyways, if she is doing this, it is up to you how to deal with it. It hurts you so why stick around and continue to let her do this to you? She will continue to do it as long as she can get away with it, it's an obsession and also a way to make her feel better about herself. She won't give it up.

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