I need some advice about my best friend, or should i say soon to be ex best friend?

so i have been best friends with this one girl since 6th grade. and its now the summer before college. but recently she started hanging out with these other girls who are gonna be juniors in high school. she will text me to see if i wanna hang out, then text back and say actually im going to ';blanks'; house instead. like i dont care if she has other firends but its just annoying when she asks to hang out then just blow me off. am i over reacting, or should i confront her about it?I need some advice about my best friend, or should i say soon to be ex best friend?
Maybe just ask her what's going on, and ask her why she keeps blowing you off.I need some advice about my best friend, or should i say soon to be ex best friend?
Several things could be the issue here. She might be wanting attention, or she might be trying to ';show off'; the fact that she can hang with other folks. The best remedy for that is to not give her a reaction, even if it pisses you off, don't let her know. Next time she asks you if you want to hang out, tell her you've got something else going on and you'll try to catch up with her some other time. Don't get caught up in her childish mind games.
She is a shady friend who is chasing her past wanting to be younger again. Plus I see that she looks at you like a temp friend now. When she has no one to be with, she calls you up but then ditches you for her real friends when they call her. Just be assertive with her and tell her you're going to be going to college and since she has been blowing you off, you just want to be acquaintances, but not friends. These kinds of people waste your time and give you negative energy which brings bad luck.
Confront her (in a ';non-confrontational'; manner, of course), tell her you understand we all have other friends but it is disrespectful to YOU for her to treat you this way, especially with the history you two have. Let her know how it makes you feel and let her decide how to continue on. Tell her to have fun and always remember when the little girls throw her out for the next girl with a better car, better clothes, better looking guy friends etc... You will be there for her cuz you are THAT kind of friend!!! Hopefully she will realize how this has made you feel and snap out of it, it would be a shame to lose a good friend, trust me, GOOD FEMALE FRIENDS ARE EXTREMELY HARD TO FIND!
i would just invite her to do other things with just the 2 of u. so u can get sum alone time with her and hang out like old times. U can do that for a while. and then if she still calls u and says 'wunna hang out?'; and then she says nvm im going to hang out iwth blank, then i would go talk to her and be like ';how come u always ask me to hang out and then u say nvm and then just blow me off??';
If she's your bestie you should be able to talk to her about any and every thing in the world. This situation shouldn't be any different. Talk to her about it.


If she doesn't want any thing to do with your feelings, don't worry about it much. College is right around the corner and its a whole new opportunity to make a new bestie and start a whole new chapter in your life.


Hope this helps you!
Are you leaving for college?





Is she leaving for college? If she is not leaving and you are, then maybe she is trying to make friends for when you do leave.





If you are leaving for college, forget about her. People grow apart. I just stopped being friends with someone who I was friends with for about ten years. I kept blowing her off until she ended the friendship for us both. I was so happy.





Good luck.
You know being a friend isnt all about hanging out with someone...its being there for someone when he/she needs you. Just give her space,let her hang out with other friends and always tell her to have fun. When the time comes that she'll need your help,dont say no or pretend that you doesnt care,eventually shell realize who you really are in his/her life.
Thats cool





here is my problem... i have this real good friend.. i loved her and she loved me...


i left for college for a year... i came finding a ugly dirty person instead of my good freind... she changed into a girl all into herself... she thinks she is the world...


the red lights started turning on... the warning signs... This girl is not for me...





she went away for afew mounth... we didnt speack... she chated to me but that not called real talk...





now she is back - i want to drop her and i dont know how... we both hate each other but dont want to hurt the other so acting like we like each other... its crazy!!





My advice for you when you see warning sign coming up... stop it... i saw these warning signs from the day we met but couldnt help but continue....
she is trying to include you. i went through the same thing with my ex best friend, but the difference is she blew me off and ignored me. if you two have been close since the 6th grade then you shouldn't throw all it away because she made new friends.besides, im sure once you both get into collage she will see them less and you'll have more time
You need to talk to her, If you've been friends with her since 6th grade, you should be able to be honest with her. Talk to her but try not to attack her. She'll get defensive and then the line of communication will be closed and you could lose a good friend. Good luck.
do the same to her. you shouldn't be her friend if she treats you like that. treat her the way she treats you. if you don't want to do that, then just tell her the truth. that's what i would do.
I would confront her, but not in a rude way just ask her why she doesn't want to hangout with you as much. I had the same problem but when I asked my best friends about it they didn't realize that they were doing it. (:
I would be mad about that too. I'm very jealous if my friends have other friends...wierd, but that's just how i am...You should talk to her about it and if she doesn't get you, hold out a little longer and see if things get better.
i bet shes just trying to get back at you for hanging out with your other friends. because she got jealous. so i think maybe you just have to apologize and hang out with her for a while.
I think it's kind of pathetic she's hanging out with juniors when she's in college to be honest...
I would ditch her a few times like that, then if she doesn't catch on confront her and if she doesn't change ditch her.





good luck.
thats just not cool you should try talking to her before you stop talking to her or being ex-best friends cuz thats a lot of years wasted!! just tell her how you feel and ask her what her problem is?!
next time she txts you to go out say no i dont want you to blow me off for another one of your friends
confront her about it.
ask her wats up...
shes a *****


dont talk to her
tell her how you feel,


oh wow, she probably feels the same way


tell her you need a friend and if you and her can talk


thats kinda like my


my BESTfriend since fith grade started to hang out with preps


and left me, i started to chill with preps just to be with her,


they were kewl and all but different, and she acted different like one of them,


i kinda left her, but came back.


i told her i missed her and yadayadayada


then we made up like mad





all i m saying, is talk to her


its okaay to hang with other people though


i mean if shes chillin with juniors let here,


just test her if she like them better than you


donk just ask her, she gots to prove her friendship


hopefully shell wont go to them instead of you


if she does, shell come back, if shes truly your friend


if not, screw_her!!