Tuesday, August 24, 2010

If there's a piece of advice you could give to ppl looking to get into a new relationship, what would it be?

It's lessons learned time. Perhaps there are mistakes you made that you wish someone would have told you.If there's a piece of advice you could give to ppl looking to get into a new relationship, what would it be?
Don't rush things. If it's meant to be, it'll work itself out.If there's a piece of advice you could give to ppl looking to get into a new relationship, what would it be?
Make sure that its a relationship that you want and not what the other person wants or you'll be sorry for the duration of the relationship.
Don't do it! Relationships are hard work whether Hetero, Gay or Bi! :-)


Cheers
Go where the action is. In my case, I wanted to find someone smart, so I joined Mensa. Score!
Be open and honest about everything. Tell no lies and everything will be good.
My advice, if you are past the initial getting to know enfatuation phase, and think it could be a serious relationship, then you should ask each other important questions on the kind of life you may want to lead together: Do you both want to have children? Do you expect fidelity? Do you have fiancial goals, like buying a house together? And get out any skeletons that may be in the closet. You don't want to disagree on these topics 4 years down the line
Try,try,try,as hard as you can to think with your head,as well as your heart!!!
Giving your boyfriend oral sex usually gets you out of trouble, chores or might distract him long enough to grab his credit cards and go shopping with them.
Take your time, don't rush. Make sure your short term as well as long term goals are on the same level( do you want kids, do you want to live together, etc.) so that you can avoid being surprised...or ambushed...
Always be yourself from day one. Don't try to fit someone else's picture of who you are. Don't try to change them. Take the time to make sure you're seeing them for who they are, not who you want them to be. Don't be focused on finding that perfect someone. Focus on living your life and meeting new people. When the time is right, you will stumble upon the person you need.
GO SLOW!!!





Take your time.


Get to know them.


ASK QUESTIONS and make sure you get ANSWERS!!





Dont rush!!














oh.. and ALWAYS put a sock on it!!





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Go slow. You don't have to rush into anything.
Don't fake your happiness. If it's not working, it wasn't meant to be. Don't risk your happiness out of fear of hurting someone else. Hope it is a great relationship, but things happen. I wish i hadn't set my expectations so high, just live.
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