Tuesday, August 24, 2010

I'm going to be a freshmen this year, and like to be more social. I don't know how and I need some advice?

Start with just talking to people about basics, what classes they're taking, what middle school they went to, etc. If the convo flows, then it may be the start of a beautiful friendship! Laugh a lot and don't take yourself too seriously. Be nice and compliment people. Don't try to push friendship on anyone, but don't cling to your middle school friends. Find people who you like and get along with. Everyone else is in the same situation as you! Just don't cling on to your old friends because while everyone else is establishing their new groups you may be stuck with people who you don't really like. Or if you love your old friends, try to meet new people with them. Just be carefree and be someone other people would like to be around!I'm going to be a freshmen this year, and like to be more social. I don't know how and I need some advice?
Just put yourself out there and don't worry about what other people think. Be friendly, introduce yourself to people you've never met, join clubs and activities.I'm going to be a freshmen this year, and like to be more social. I don't know how and I need some advice?
You have to be yourself. Have a mentality that you don't care what other people tink of you. (But really you do)


Dress cute AND comfortable.


Join a sport, any.


Start a charity club your sophomore or junior year, so you can put it on your college applications.


(If you can't play any sports, join choir, the tv station, or run for historian or secretary.)
join clubs %26amp; sports. get to know people. also try for freshman ASB, you'll get to know many many many people. TALK %26amp; BE SOCIAL .
as hard as it may seem at 1st just be more talkative, answer questions in class introduce yourself to the people around you...act the way you do with your best friends, think of it like this what is the worst that can happen if you choose to speak up? push yourself past the shy barrier, once you do that itll be easier, but everytime you start thinking that you dont want to be the one to answer a question or have someone think you're weird just think of the energy your giving out and how many friends you can make, just try your hardest itll benefit you so much, it is such a good think to be a good public speaker and have the ability to get peoples attention and be personable, smile alot don't look mad, and even if you feel yourself getting all red and shy just continue talking :) good luck
talk to people and do be afraid to make a friend and be open to new groups and different types of friends.

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