I am nine weeks pregnant and very mean to him i dont want to be i really need help please help me any advice?

I am nine weeks pregnat, I lash out on my hunny all the time i get upset so easy please any advice on how to control this moodieness is helpfulI am nine weeks pregnant and very mean to him i dont want to be i really need help please help me any advice?
This is normal trust me it is your pregnancy hormones and just your body all over the place. Could you imagine how it would be if you could actually see all the things happening in your body right now. Cells dividing, hormone release, breasts enlarging preparing for milk ahhh the thought of it all just gives me a headache.





I am 7 weeks pregnant with #2 and I am so lashing out at my hubby, I keep attacking him. I feel really annoyed with him, he knows that its normal and just the hormones kicking in. You both need to ride it out, one you feel that baby moving you will be full of joy. You will feel much better in second trimester which isnt long for you now.





Goodluck





( dont stress your not the only one going through this )I am nine weeks pregnant and very mean to him i dont want to be i really need help please help me any advice?
Hun I am 27 almost 28 weeks pregnant and this is nothing more than an issue about self control.. Your going to need his support further down the line and lashing out at him because your pregnant is not going to do any good.





You are not having any symptoms right now.. not showing, you can still touch your feet, your not having the aches and pains as someone who's further along.. you need to learn to stop and walk away if your starting to get riled up.
It's all because the HORMONES, I had the same frustration as you, it seemed like my husband couldn't do ANYTHING right I would just be irriitated all the time. It will get better but it takes time, I'm 22 weeks pregnant and my hormones just now settled down. I explained to my husband that it wasn't necessarily anything he was doing to make me mad just to leave me alone for a little bit and I would be fine.
I have lashed out at my husband quite a few times during the 33 1/2 weeks that I have been pregnant so far, and probably will again a few more times before our daughter is born... it is a hormonal thing. I usually go out for a drive or shopping without him. Sometimes when I am just pissy for no reason, I will go get him a little tiny present or something for the baby. If you start to feel edgy around him and can't get away, just sit down, breathe, and relax. Also, tell him how you are feeling. If he knows you are edgy, then he shouldn't provoke you! :-)
When he says something, or something happens. Stop what your doing and count back from ten, slowly of course. Close your eyes if you have to, picture the most Beautiful thing in this world and u will calm right down and can deal with whatever is wrong.





Sometimes this is very hard to do, esp when your in your third trimester lol! But just assure him after that its just your hormones at the moment and u didnt mean to :]
I went through the same things during my first trimester and I sometimes began to feel the same now. But what I did ws sat him down and explained to him the changes that my body was going through. I also explained to him that my hormones were at a rage at this time of pregnancy and that it would take me time to get used to them and he understood. So hopefully your honey would feel the same if you just explained it to him. Good Luck!
There is basically nothing you can do. mine is freaking out, in himself cause he is so confused and those not know what to say to me. cause i get mad for everything he says ... and i start crying and take the dogs for a walk. and he is upset then he does not know how to please me.


just let hi know that you are aware of the fact that your hormones are crazy
Its just your raging pregnancy hormones. lol I know how that is. I used to vent to my husband so bad. but luckily he was pretty understanding about it. you should talk to your husband, and make sure he understands what your going through, and that you can't always help your mood swings. If he loves you Im sure he'll understand, and support you. otherwise there really isn't much you can do to stop your mood swings, there just gonna happen when they do. you could try to make a big effort to not take them out on your husband when you start feeling that way. but personally i don't think its good to hold feelings in. just let out how you feel. hopefully he'll understand. good luck.
Realising your doing it is the first step. When you are feeling crabby take a few seconds before you respond to him to think it through. Before you hound him for something think about it. If you really can't control it, then learn to walk away before you are nasty with him. You might also look into some ways to reduce your stress - massage, bubble baths, what ever works for you. If you feel calmer you are less likely to snap
haha i have to laugh..im 36+3 wks and ive been cranky with my partner for the last 30 wks...most times i dont even realise im doing it..i feel sorry for him as you do for your partner..its just hormones once they settle down u shouldnt be so moody..but it just depends on you. Im sure he loves you alot and understands. havent really got any advice as how you can stop ur moddieness as im in the same boat..just hang in thea!!!
It's just because of your hormones . just relax and if he does something which makes you angry try to ignorewhat he done . and say to yourself '; I still love him , I shouldn't becoem angry with him , it's just my hormones , i'll be ok ';





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It is normal to be hormonal at this time in your pregnancy, tell him sorry and reassure him it will get better. I would say in about a couple of weeks you should be more leveled out.
Once you feel crabby just warn him im in a bad mood. Anyways i think he will understand.