Infidelity--has it happened again? Never able to prove before and won't be able to now--seeking advice?

My spouse has cheated on me before about 20 years ago. only found out by his own admission much much later. I was never able to prove it just had that jello-like feeling inside.


Fast forward. recently he went on an overseas business trip and is back now. I have that feeling again and he didn't hug me at the airport or look into my eyes. He is a shrewd man--always has been. I can't prove it %26amp; it's painful and frustrating. Anyone in the same position? or have resolved their own situation?Infidelity--has it happened again? Never able to prove before and won't be able to now--seeking advice?
It doesn't matter what others are feeling. This should be about you.





Look, you don't trust him. You have already PAID 20 years of your life living with, sleeping with, eating with a man you totally don't trust. (Jello like feeling inside? How horrible it must be...)





Believe me, I KNOW what it's like to be alone and to feel lonliness... but wouldn't it be better to be alone or lonely, then to be with someone who makes you want to vomit constantly because you just can't trust them?





Please, get out of this situation. You still have time to end up with someone who actually appreciates you... Infidelity--has it happened again? Never able to prove before and won't be able to now--seeking advice?
Well, I think you need to talk with your husband and let him know your feelings about the situation and let him know how your heart is. Communication is key to any relationship and you should be able to just talk with your husband okay? Just talk with him and let him know, if he freaks out than yes he cheated if he is willing to talk about it than give him the benefit of the doubt. But, either way you need to get it out there in the open.
i once had that same feeling of doom, didn't know why i was feeling so badly. he also ignored me and began to disconnect. i did not listen to my intuition, made excuses but found out later on the woman had been in my home when i was on vacation, found out he had been seeing her for awhile right under my nose.a few months later he left, asking for a divorce, if it feels the same as it felt to u before then kit probably is this. intuition never lies. he can't look at u, and my ex could not look at me because of the guilt he is feeling.
if this person keeps making you miserable you shouldnt be with him... you deserve to be happy... and strong all by yourself... if he broke your trust before and you feel iffy about him from time to time... you shouldnt be with him...he is keeping you for something...but not because he loves you if he would do that to you again...
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Your gut feeling is right- DON'T doubt it- take it from one who knows. Confront the situation and / or get out. Don't wait for him to give you an STD or break your heart again.
Go with your gut,it is never wrong.If you feel that it has happened again hire a private investigator,they'll catch the sneaky bastard,sorry!
Being shrewd is his cover, and he wears it well. Trust your intuition sweetie, hire a private investigator.
Go with your intuition. Never underestimate it.